徐志摩|现代人都想找到灵魂伴侣再结婚，心理专家：你会错过对的人( 五 ) 柠檬精|灵魂|伴侣|大叔|郎朗

“你不要追求一个 360° 连火锅口味都一样的灵魂伴侣，你追求一段美好的、舒服的、包容的、有成长性的爱情，那个对的人自然会追着和你跑。

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